Is it really your place to speak?

I RECENTLY HAD A VERY STRANGE ENCOUNTER WITH A FAMILY MEMBER.  YOU KNOW WHEN YOU ARE SO CAUGHT OFF GUARD AND THEY ARE COMING ACROSS TO YOU AS SO NICE (LIKE BUDDY, BUDDY) AND THEN BOOM!!!!  WELL I JUST HAD THIS HAPPEN AND I'M STILL IN SHOCK ABOUT IT.
WHEN YOU HAVE RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE I THINK EACH ONE IS UNIQUE AND DIFFERENT.  I'M NOT SAYING IF YOU ARE IN MY LIFE YOU SHOULD FEEL PRIVILEGED BUT IN A WAY I DO FEEL THAT.  I TAKE MY RELATIONSHIPS VERY SERIOUSLY AND INVEST IN THEM CAREFULLY.  THERE IS ONE PARTICULAR PERSON IN MY LIFE WHO ALWAYS HAS LOVED ME UNCONDITIONALLY, ACCEPTS ME FOR EXACTLY THE WEIRDO THAT I AM AND SHE IS MORE THAN JUST A FRIEND OR RELATIVE....TO ME SHE IS MY SISTER.  I TALK ABOUT HER A LOT AND THE REASON BEING IS THAT SHE AND I ARE ONLY ONE MONTH APART AND THERE IS NOTHING WE DON'T KNOW ABOUT EACH OTHER AND NOTHING WE WON'T KEEP FROM EACH OTHER.  I KNOW IF SHE CAME TO ME OUT OF CONCERN OR FOR ANY OTHER REASON IT WOULD BE WITH NOTHING BUT GOOD INTENTION.  I LISTEN TO WHAT SHE SAYS TO ME AND NEVER TAKE OFFENSE.  SHE KNOWS MY LIFE, ALL THAT I HAVE BEEN THROUGH AND THE SAME GOES WITH HER.  BUT WHEN YOU HAVE A PERSON WHO COMPLETELY DISTANCES THEMSELVES AND SUDDENLY MAKES YOUR LIFE THEIR BUSINESS THAT THEY HAVE NO PART OF - YEA, YOU DO TAKE GREAT OFFENSE TO THE WORDS THEY ARE SAYING BECAUSE IN YOUR MIND YOU KNOW IT IS WITHOUT YOUR BEST INTEREST AT HEART.
THIS PARTICULAR THING HAD TO DO WITH THE MOST DEAR THING TO ME IN MY LIFE, MY CHILD.  ANYONE WHO IS A PARENT CAN RELATE TO THIS IN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER.  WHEN THINGS ARE BROUGHT TO YOUR ATTENTION WITHOUT FACT AND FOR THE MESSENGERS OWN AGENDA IT IS ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING.  THIS WAS AN EXTREMELY EMOTIONAL THING TO GO THROUGH AND NATURALLY I WAS VERY DISTURBED BY THE CONVERSATION.  THIS IS NOT A PERSON YOU CAN SORT OF TALK WITH - THIS IS A PERSON THAT TALKS AT YOU WITH ACCUSATION AND CONTEMPT.  A PERSON WHO TALKS WITHOUT FACT AND THINKS THEY KNOW THINGS THAT ARE VERY VIOLATING AND SAID WITH A SHARP TONGUE YET SUCH A BUBBLY TONE OF VOICE.  IT LITERALLY MADE ME SICK AND NATURALLY IT WAS VERY EMOTIONAL. 
WHO DOES THIS PERSON THINK THEY ARE TO INTRUDE INTO MY LIFE WITHOUT FACT, TRUE KNOWLEDGE AND WITH THOUGHT OF GOOD INTENTION? 
YOU HAVE TO PAY CAREFUL ATTENTION TO THESE DO-GOODERS IN SOCIETY AND GROSSLY ENOUGH WITHIN YOUR OWN FAMILY!  THERE IS NO SINCERITY OTHER THAN TO GET INVOLVED WHERE THEY DO NOT BELONG NOR ARE THEY INVITED.  IF I WANTED THIS ADVISE OR OPINION I WOULD HAVE ASKED FOR IT.
IRONICALLY - IT WAS BROUGHT TO MY ATTENTION THAT "MY BIRTHDAY" NEEDED TO BE ON A DIFFERENT DAY BECAUSE THIS PERSON WOULD BE GONE FOR A SPA DAY....OR SOMETHING TO THAT EFFECT.  REALLY?  WHO SAID I WAS CELEBRATING MY BIRTHDAY AND WHO SAID THIS PERSON WAS TO BE EVEN ONE FOOT NEAR ME ON THAT DAY?  NOBODY!  THAT'S WHO.
SO TO WRAP UP MY COMPLAINING SESSION UP I WANT TO SAY SOMETHING THAT IS VERY TRUE.  FIRST OF ALL BE CAREFUL WHO YOU LET IN TO YOUR LIFE AND BLOCK THE ONES WHO DON'T NEED TO BE IN IT.  AND SECOND - OPINIONS REALLY ARE LIKE ASSHOLES BECAUSE EVERYONE HAS ONE.....WARRANTED OR NOT! 
I WOULDN'T WISH THIS ON ANYONE....ACCEPT MAYBE THE ONE WHO IS NOTORIOUS IN DOING THIS.